Thursday, December 21, 2023

The Dreaded Room That Is Never Used

 

The Room That Is Never Used: our Living Room

If you are the owner of an older house, say, one built before 2000, then you probably have a large amount of square footage devoted to a room in the house that you hardly ever use. It is called "The Living Room."

Its successor is something that we now call "The Family Room." If the house has an open floor plan on the first floor, i.e. the kitchen and The Family Room are one open space, then the room is sometimes known as "The Great Room."


Someone mentioned that all the room was missing was a dog (s) laying on the floor in the room.
I added Angie (black Lab) and Bella (Golden Retriever) to the scene.


Nowadays home builders do not have Living Rooms in their houses, but rather, they opt for the open designed Great Room. Great Rooms are fine, but the noise from the kitchen (also known as "The Room Where Everyone Congregates When You Are Having A Party".) is one of the negative points of this concept.

Our house has the Living Room, Family Room, Kitchen, Dining Room, Entry Hall and Den. We probably spend most of our time in the Family Room because that is where we have placed the only functioning television in our home. 

And That Other Room Too

The Dining Room is also a room that is rarely used, save for a place to put things, The Dining Room table is a clutter magnet - all sorts of stuff and paraphernalia wind up on the table. Around the time of the Christmas holiday, the large dining room table is employed as a gift wrapping space due to the its size. Sometimes the dining room table does service as a war game table when my daughter and I play our Teddy Bear Wars game. We only use the room for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I have noticed that some newly built houses have also dispensed with the Dining Room as all of the ground floor square footage is devoted to that Great Room culprit.

Back To Main Point

So I have strayed away from the whole point of this post, which is to highlight the Living Room as a place that is comfortable and needs to be used more often.

Last night we decided to forgo any watching of television and instead park our butts in the Living Room next to the fireplace. Herself worked on some crossword puzzles from the Wall Street Journal, while I immersed myself into Dan Sickles and the fight for the Peach Orchard at Gettysburg. In the end, everything gets back to Dan Sickles, don't you know?

Herself and I both commented on how nice it was to sit in The Room That Is Never Used (TRTINU") and just read and talk to each other and that we should do this more often. We say that every time we use the TRTINU and then never follow up on it. There doesn't seem to be very much to watch on television. We cut the cable cord recently and now use various streaming services. This has had the effect of us watching less television unless it is the News or some movie/series on Netflix.

The yellow sofa shown in the pictures above is one of the most comfortable sofas that I have ever tried. So that makes it a good place to take my afternoon nap. It is even better after we turn the clocks back to standard time because the daylight recedes into early darkness that makes it easier to nap.

I have ramble on long enough. On a long and cold winter's night, and with the fireplace stoked with a load of wood, TRTINU is the best place to be.












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15 comments:

  1. Hmmm, we never use our dining room, other than at Xmas and Easter. The rest of the time it is my study, workspace and games room all combined. It is open to the living room, but could be closed off if we re-installed some sliding doors that were ther originally I believe and open up a closed off doorway. However we like the open plan feel, it keeps it warmer in Winter as the little sun we get warms the whole area up rather nicely.

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  2. Sounds like there is a New Year's Resolution in there somewhere to use what looks like a charming space more often. I miss the separate kitchen, to contain noise and cooking smells more easily. The Great Room idea is lost on me.

    Merry Christmas to Everyone in Hesse-Seewald!

    Kind Regards,

    Stokes

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    1. Thank you Stokes. BTW, where is the annual Christmas Stollen?

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  3. Here in Scotland (and possibly other parts of the Uk), older homes had a room which was "Kept For Best" Ours was called the "Front Room" since we hardly "lived" in it!). We used to decamp there for Christmas and Hogmanay, and then it would only be used for most of the rest of the year by my Dad to listen to LP's or watch a film on a Saturday afternoon and to watch wildlife programmes on Sunday evening. Good times.
    All the best to you and the family Jim, have a cracking Christmas and a happy Hogmanay.

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    1. Thank you Stuart. It's always good to hear from you. I hope that you and your family have a great Christmas.

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  4. My old family home, a terraced house in Boston, Lincolnshire, had a 'front room' that was used only for posh visitors such as the vicar, and when there was a death in the family for holding the coffin before a funeral. When my grandmother died (back in the 1950s) and we moved in, it was used as a general living room.

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  5. Our Crimea era Victoria House used to have a living room, dining room ng room and kitchen, but the kitchen and dining room were knocked together back in the mid 70s, which actually works very well. I don't think I've lived anywhere grand enough to have a separate family room though! The TV is in the living room but the dining room gets used a lot as I play games on the table, my xbox is in there and there are comfy chairs in the bay window. Ideal to read in.

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  6. Jim - you hit the nail on the head. The evolution of houses. Dining rooms and separate sitting rooms have gone out of fashion in favour of huge kitchen's/family living areas all knocked into one.

    My house is a 4 story terrace and we spend 99% of the time on the ground floor which is where the kitchen is and next door the general living room where the TV is. This used to be the girls 'play room' - an assault course of discarded toys, teddies, tut etc. 2nd reason is that the dog is on the ground floor as it is strictly verboten to go upstairs.

    The first floor is the posh sitting room and dining room which is rarely used unless we have guests. The huge plus for using it is there is an open fire which is glorious when lit and lovely views out of the back onto Windsor castle and the park. However it always seems a bit miserable to sit there and leave the dog downstairs.

    Guy

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    1. Your sitting room sounds like it has potential as a game room (refer to pictures of Callan playing the battle of Gettysburg in a formal looking room). A fireplace is a big plus.

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  7. That's a splendid room. Especially with added hounds. Our current house is smaller and we've just knocked the kitchen and dining room together. And added a woodburner. Quite pleasant at this time of year. But our main living room, with the stupidly expensive but very comfortable sofa, hardly gets used... I really need to sort out a comfy chair with suitable lighting and get some reading done in the New Year.

    Have a most excellent Christmas!

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    1. A big comfy armchair and a tot of single malt scotch couldn't do any harm.

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  8. Rename the room the library Jim. With an open fire, comy seats and lots of books it becomes the perfect place to fall asleep.

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    1. I do a lot of falling asleep these days. I just turned age 71 this week.

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  9. An interesting post Jim. We too have the Living Room which when the boys were both still at home and in High School we called “The Music Room” so they could practice their piano, guitar, Tenor Drums and believe it or not, bagpipes! It’s a bit quieter now however it still gets a bit of use when the youngest and his girlfriend seek some quiet from older ears.
    The Dining room, which certainly has been a present wrapping station this month, is used at least once a week still on the insistence of our young men for Tuesday night dinner when the oldest pops over. Wonderful conversations still around the meal which I still smile over as I type. Long may they continue.

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    1. We sometimes have our dinner in the dining room just so that we can put the room to good use.

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